tcp_conn_req_max_q/tcp_conn_req_max_q0 : This is the connection queue
maintained by TCP/IP stack before webserver calls completes call to accept for
those connection. As far as webserver configuration is concerned, ListenQ is
the parameter which controls it.
http://docs.sun.com/source/817-1834-10/crmagnus.html#wp1000296
Once the connection is accepted, webserver typically puts into connection
queue. ConnQueueSize is the size of the queue which is maintained by
webserver.
In summary ListenQ is the number of connections kept by OS (TCP/IP stack) for
web server process before it starts rejecting new connections and
ConnQueueSize is the connection queue limit that webserver maintains before it
starts rejecting new connection.