Well you asked where to go, and I told you. Know one said you had to like it. And, as you say, this is a forum for discussions (not spoon feeding) and I can say (nearly) anything I want to on it. If you can't handle the answers you get, however sarcastic they might, or might not, be, then don't ask the question.
And definately do not get indignant about them. We are here as volunteers, not as service providers. We do not have to do your bidding, and we definately do not have to dance to your whims, or act as you would wish it.